Yes, It’s a Pie, But Let Me Explain

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Meme found on the internet.

I know the phrase above sounds good. I mean especially in the United States, shouldn’t we all enjoy the same freedoms and rights? It’s one of our national ideals. And yet there are many, many groups (look at the color wheel in the image above and imagine what it represents) declaring that they suffer from a lack of rights.

Important Note: I’m not denying in any way the fact that some groups are regularly discriminated against and have certain of their rights denied. On the other hand, there’s more than one way to view the issue. I’m just holding up a different lens. Have a look.

I know this is supposed to be a religious blog, but bear with me.

So who isn’t getting their fair share of the pie?

According to the blog of Mark B. Baer, Inc (yes, a lawyer), lots of people.

I should say the article isn’t well maintained. It was published on November 7, 2021 but already some of the links used as resources are broken, including to one of Baer’s major sources Timothy D. Wilson and Nancy Brekke (if you clicked on it, I said it was broken) who supposedly “proved” bias could be avoided or eliminated.

Wait? Eliminated? I didn’t know human beings could be completely, dispassionately unbiased and objective.

The problem is the definition that Baer uses for bias. His source, which is also a broken link, defines bias as:

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Book Review: “Of Boys and Men” (2022) by Richard V. Reeves

reevesI just finished reading Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do about It (2022) by Richard Reeves. I was inspired by what I had learned when writing my Defining Men series on this blog. I thought I might gain some further insights.

I was wrong.

I don’t doubt that author Richard Reeves is sincere in everything he’s written and that he actually is deeply concerned about the future of boys and men in our world. I just think he’s looking at the topic through a rather narrow lens.

I know when you read a book that has an extensive bibliography, it’s hard to impossible to say that the author was biased or misinformed. On the other hand, it really depends on which sources you mine and how you interpret them.

Reeves did state that both Progressives and Conservatives have, to one degree or another, not fully understood the issues involved in how males have become lost and without identity and purpose:

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Missouri Pastor Calls Autism “Demonic” – Where He Went Wrong

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Pastor Rick Morrow of Beulah Church in Richland, Missouri. | Screengrab: YouTube/Beulah Church

First of all, and hopefully I’ve said this before in the years this blog has existed. I’m not a theologian and I never will be. I’ve never been to seminary. I’m not a certified, official Bible teacher. I’m just a guy who has studied, mostly on his own, for a number of years (decades) and have come up with a few ideas. Most of those ideas actually belong to other people and sources. Take all of that into account when reading the following.

Oh good grief.

Periodically, a story will be posted in news or social media making Christians look particularly evil and/or stupid. This time, I found the story in The Christian Post so it’s not like I can accuse them of anti-Christian bias.

The article is titled Missouri pastor who called autism a ‘demon’ resigns from school board after backlash. The “Pastor” in question is named Rick Morrow and his church is Beulah Church in Richland Missouri.

That link used to go to their Facebook page which has been taken offline. They have no twitter account or website that I can find, which in their case, is probably a good idea. I’m sure they’re taking a lot of heat just now.

The article opens with:

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Defining Men: The Afterword

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Quote from “Reflections on the Psalms” by C.S. Lewis

After publishing Part Five: Who are Men of God?, I received a comment from someone which, on the surface, seemed innocent enough. As the “conversation” progressed, it became obvious (although they denied it) that the person had ulterior motives. Perhaps a Christian man or men in a church hurt them in some way, or they have bought into the idea that Christian men are in general bad.

I decided not to tolerate such an attitude, but in retrospect, I realized that not all Christian (or Jewish or Muslim or any man of faith) men are good. Some do hide behind certain scriptures to justify their gad and ungodly behavior, so there is that. Also, as Christians, if we have done someone harm, we need to seek out their forgiveness.

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Defining Men, Part Five: Who Are Men of God?

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A Man praying holding a Holy Bible. DUNCAN ANDISON/ADOBE STOCK

So far in this series, I’ve been addressing how to define a man, his purpose (from part four) and the struggles of men from mostly a secular viewpoint. I’ve also been leaning heavily on feminism because, in spite of what fourth stage feminism and general progressivism says, it’s very hard to bring one group up without tearing another group down.

Certainly, there has been a great need in some areas to support women but as I’ve previously said, any effort to “dismantle the patriarchy” ends up dismantling men as individuals and a group as well. One example is changing the Boy Scouts of America from a boys/men only group aimed at building and nurturing the next generation of men to an equity for all poster child, including girls/women because anything “all male” is always deemed “non-inclusive,” “patriarchy,” and “misogynistic.”

In other words, many of the goals of feminism are resulting in creating the toxic masculinity they are trying to exterminate.

But what can be done to help men?

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Defining Men, Part Four: Do Men Have A Purpose?

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Marta Nardini/Getty Images

This is the fourth installment in my “Defining Men” series. The first three are:
Part One: Looking Through the Barbie Lens
Part Two: What is Feminism?
Part Three: Do Feminists Hate Men?

Setting the issue of feminism aside (for the most part), let’s focus more exclusively on men and the issues many of us seem to have in common. I’ll start by citing what many may believe to be one of the ultimate “manly men,” Arnold Schwarzenegger. In his August 25, 2023 newsletter, writer Adam Bornstein (no, Arnold doesn’t write this himself) discusses “The Friendship Crisis.”

One of the common issues among many men today is loneliness (Okay, Arnold may have written the following):

You said making friends as an adult is nearly impossible for you, and you’re struggling. First of all, I want you to know that nothing is wrong with you, and you shouldn’t beat yourself up about it. Remember, we never beat ourselves up; we always get to work.

But why are men more especially lonely than women?

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"When you awake in the morning, learn something to inspire you and mediate upon it, then plunge forward full of light with which to illuminate the darkness." -Rabbi Tzvi Freeman